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Self-esteem

“Ever since I moved away…”

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December 29, 2019 Advice & Guidance, Column

“I always attract shitty, abusive friends…”

You are your best friend, your biggest supporter, your ride or die. You may have others in life who will treat you with the respect and reverence that you deserve, but no one can love you the way you love yourself or treat you as well as you can treat yourself.

November 9, 2019 Advice & Guidance, Column

“I’m a virgin and I’m very scared to lose my virginity…”

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September 25, 2019 Advice & Guidance, Column

“If love is tainted or toxic, can it truly be love?”

You, my good friend, have just hit the nail on the head. Yes, you should focus on the unconditional, non-toxic love that you can give yourself but also on forgiving the past hurts and experiences inflicted upon you by your parents.

September 21, 2019 Advice & Guidance, Column

“Why do we allow others to disrespect us?”

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August 24, 2019 Advice & Guidance, Column

“In order for me to feel good about myself I hire escorts and frequent massage parlors…”

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June 6, 2019 Advice & Guidance, Column

“I was recently dating a guy for two months and I lost my virginity to him…”

If you truly realized and knew your worth, this fox would have not been able to get into the hen house. You were so consumed by your need for validation and love that you chose to put the needs of someone else, i.e. sex, above your own needs. And honestly, you played yourself and allowed yourself to be played!

June 4, 2019 Advice & Guidance, Column

“I’m pregnant with my ex’s baby, and I’m having a tough time deciding between abortion or keeping it…”

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June 4, 2019 Advice & Guidance, Column

I uprooted and changed my entire life for a guy…

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May 14, 2019 Advice & Guidance, Column

Guy I was seeing severely broke my heart a few months ago and completely screwed me over mentally…

April 8, 2019 Advice & Guidance, Column

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