Do you think that if someone truly loves you, they would cheat on you? Going further, if your partner truly trusted you or believed you both had an unconditional love, a very accepting love, do you think he would have kept his bisexuality a secret?
I don’t think we actually do. If you hate the one you are with, should you be with that person?
There is nothing stupid with following your dreams, but sometimes our egos will make dreams for us instead of our hearts.
Going after your goals and working towards the life of your dreams is never selfish. And if anyone would call that selfish would they be the best, most supportive person for you and your goals?