Why do I always develop such strong feelings for men that clearly aren’t great for me?

Why do I always develop such strong feelings for men that clearly aren’t great for me, let alone boyfriend material? It’s like they aren’t complete jerks, but still there are always blatant signs that show that they aren’t good people. Why do I always do this to myself?

Maybe because you believe you don’t deserve a man of worth? Maybe because you don’t believe you deserve a great, healthy relationship? I’m in no way trying to be hard on you, but you continuously choose guys that are not good for you.

Have you thought that maybe the men you are choosing are projecting back to you how you truly feel about yourself? Maybe you’re not truly secure in who you are and yourself? Maybe you don’t see yourself as a truly good person? But what is a great or a good person to you? Everyone has their own definition of how a good person should be and act.

Have you thought about going within and truly figuring out why you choose men that aren’t great for you? Have you considered just sitting out of the dating game and trying to heal your inner self as well as your inner wounds? There’s a reason you choose guys that aren’t compatible with your ideologies and morals, you just have to sit with yourself and figure it out why. I wish I had more advice, but the only person that truly knows why you choose these guys is you.


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