I’ve been talking to this guy for a couple of months now…

I’ve been talking to this guy for a couple of months now. We are not exclusive, but he said he wants to take me out on a date and hints about making me his girlfriend, yet I see him still post inappropriate things like he’s single. Do you think it’s a good idea to tell him I’m bothered by this or let it go since we aren’t official yet?

No, I don’t think it’s a good idea to tell him about this. Have you ever thought about why the two of you aren’t exclusive? Do you ever wonder why he posts inappropriate things on social media? Have you ever thought that maybe he doesn’t want to be exclusive with you and that he maybe has other women that he takes out and hints about making his girlfriend, but never actually does? Kind of like you, huh?

I am so sorry to be the one to tell you this, but this guy is playing you. You’ve been talking for months, but you aren’t official yet? He hints about making you his girlfriend, but he never actually does. He’s stringing you along until he finds someone he thinks is better. So, no, I don’t think you should tell him his social media posts are bothering you.

He’s playing games with you! He’s stringing you along, so I believe you should get out as soon as you can. You never want to be in a relationship with someone that plays games and isn’t truthful. And it seems that you have deeper feelings for this guy than he does for you. How about instead of making this relationship official, focus on loving yourself enough so that the next time a guy like him comes around, you will see the signs and know that he isn’t in it for the long haul. And just know that sometimes you have to say no to the demands others place upon you, such as accepting the little, tiny fragments of themselves that they offer instead of offering all of themselves. In this instance, I think you should love yourself enough to walk away.

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