I think I’m bisexual, but I prefer…

I think I’m bisexual, but I prefer men. I’m a woman, and most of my friends are very conservative, especially by best-friend. I did come out to one of my friends, and she’s happy for me. But, I’m not 100% sure that I’m bisexual because I’ve never had a romantic relationship with a woman.

I feel that if I came out that my friends would think I was weird and they wouldn’t want to hang out with me anymore. Also, one of my old friends is bisexual and my friends always say that she is weird.

Are they really your friends if they would judge you for your sexual orientation? Why do you settle for friends that wouldn’t accept you for the authentic person that you are? Deep down, I think you know and believe that your friends aren’t truly for you because if they were there would be no doubt in your mind that they would support you a 100% if you came out.

And why do you have to define your sexuality? Why can’t you like anyone and not look so much at the gender? Can’t you just be attracted to that person and go from there, no matter if they are male or female? You don’t have to put yourself in a box! You like who you like, and that is okay, no matter if they happen to be male or female.

And it’s okay to be still exploring who you are and what you want. There is nothing wrong with that! I feel that before you tell people about your sexuality, you should figure out who you are and what you want. And it’s not weird to like the same sex, in my opinion, it’s natural, you like the person, the being they are. They just happen to be in the body of someone of the same sex.

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One thought on “I think I’m bisexual, but I prefer…

  1. V says:

    The beauty of the human experience is that there’s no rules to this. There’s no age limit for determining your sexuality. There’s no mandatory requirement to be a certain way. And they really are not your friends if they judge you for your sexual orientation. You’re absolutely right.

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