Why do people get upset if you choose to not explain every single detail of everything you do to them??!!!!

People are so frustrating. Why do people get upset if you choose to not explain every single detail of everything you do to them??!!!! I wish to be free from having to explain my existence to everyone, all the time!!!

For some reason, we live in a society where people believe they have a right to our lives and all of our experiences, but those people are wrong! There is nothing wrong with being private in a social media society. And you’re right, you shouldn’t have to explain your existence to anyone.

And some people will butt into the lives of others, instead of focusing on their own lives. In situations like this, it’s better to respond instead of react. So instead of getting angry and upset, just acknowledge that they’re focusing on your life because there’s something going on in their life that they choose to not focus on, so they turn to the lives of others and share their opinions about others’ lives.

And know that not responding is a response, and it’s the response you choose to go with. It doesn’t matter if others think they should have access to our lives, it only matters what we think and believe about ourselves and our lives. And just know, the way a person responds or reacts to you after you choose to not let them know EVERYTHING about you, has nothing to do with you and everything with them. Don’t ever feel as if you have to tell others what goes on in your life, you are living your life and no one else is. Who cares if others get upset, do what will make you the happiest and focus on your own needs.

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