I think I’m attracted to trans women, but how do I know that it’s not a fetish I’ll get over one day? What if I date a trans woman and one day the sexual connection won’t be there? I just don’t know if it’s a sexual thing or if it’s more. I know I love women, but I don’t know how to tell a woman that I’m attracted to trans also.
I have a couple of questions for you. Could you see yourself having a long, intimate relationship with a trans woman? Would you be comfortable introducing her to your family and friends? Years from now, when you’ve settled down, could you see yourself with a trans woman? Once you answer these questions, hopefully, your decision will be made clearer.
And if someone doesn’t accept all of you, and that includes your attraction to trans women, they’re not for you. And when it comes to telling women that you’re attracted to trans women, just be honest and upfront. Some may not be okay with it, and others will.
But at the end of the day, we are all human beings that desire to be seen, heard, accepted and loved for who we are. It shouldn’t matter if you were born in the body of a woman or if you were born in the body of a male, love is love, and if you choose to fall for someone who was originally in the body of a male, I support you 110%. Go with your gut; it will never steer you wrong.